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Aug 26, 2025

1hr 10 min

In this episode, Regan and Chesko react to a viral dating show clip from Provo, Utah, where college-age men cruelly mock Riley (who just wants an adventure buddy) being mocked while hidden behind a sheet during her introduction. The discussion expands into a broader analysis of toxic masculinity, examining how men prioritize male validation over genuine connection, the contradiction between complaining about loneliness while degrading women who show interest, and viral content creators who publicly shame women through rigged scales and rating systems. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Aug 18, 2025

1hr 6 min

In today's episode, the Chesko and Regan break down a viral video from a "manosphere" content creator who claims that "25-year-old women are older than 35-year-old men" due to their supposedly privileged experiences. Reagan and Chesko examine the flawed logic behind hustle culture, incel ideology, and red pill dating advice, while discussing how these toxic beliefs harm both men and women. The conversation explores themes of emotional intimacy, social isolation, male friendship dynamics, and the importance of authentic human connection over performative masculinity.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Aug 6, 2025

53 min

This episode is all over the place with Regan and Chesko diving into a grab bag of hot topics. They discuss plane etiquette drama, including a man who refused to give up his $300 seat to a rude family and a flight attendant who unapologetically eats tuna mid-flight while judging passengers for eating "fast food poison" and break down a viral video about guys with "game" and why women don't trust smooth-talking guys, exploring the difference between authentic connection and manipulative dating strategies.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Jul 28, 2025

1hr 14 min

Regan and Chesko break down a controversial list of the "10 Least Attractive Hobbies of Women According to Men." From video games and true crime to shopping and OnlyFans. They explore the psychology behind why these lists exist, unpack the double standards, and discuss how misogyny shapes what's considered "acceptable" female interests. Plus, Chesko's airhorn malfunctions, Regan fixates on the Titan submersible, and they both question who actually wrote this list. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Jul 15, 2025

54 min

Regan and Chesko dive into the bizarre world of men who think vaginas are "icky" after watching a cringe-worthy podcast clip of a guy describing women's bodies as gross and smelly. They explore the twisted logic of supposedly straight men who hate the very thing they claim to be attracted to, discuss how this ties into the pleasure gap and male loneliness epidemic, and roast the hypocrisy of men with questionable hygiene standards throwing stones. Plus: why "boy humor" might be a red flag, the art of fake pranks, and Regan's theory that extreme misogyny is just being "so straight you're gay." Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Jul 7, 2025

45 min

This week, Regan and Chesko react to a middle-aged cowboy relationship guru who gives relationship advice that's more horror movie than romance. We dissect why this advice feels genuinely alarming when presented as universal marriage guidance, complete with piercing stares and uncomfortable hand gestures. From "luscious lips" to dinner table...antics, they explore the line between consensual kink and concerning behavior.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Jul 1, 2025

55 min

Regan and Chesko dive into a viral courtroom clip where a male lawyer accidentally calls a female judge "honey" in a condescending tone, leading to an awkward exchange that perfectly captures workplace power dynamics and casual sexism. They then share their own cringe-worthy professional moments, including Chesko's traumatic experience as a young professor when three students coordinated elaborate final speeches pretending to be married to him, complete with wedding vows, maid of honor toasts, and a fake pregnancy announcement.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Manthropology 101

Jun 16, 2025

Jun 16, 2025

55 min

Join Regan and Chesko as they sit down with Holly Solem, creator and host of "Manthropology TV," to discuss her viral street interview series where she asks men the simple yet loaded question: "Why are you like this?"Holly shares the unexpected journey of how a single post on Threads sparked a movement that led to her interviewing men on camera about masculinity. From the now-legendary Timmy "Bounce Back" interview (where he declares women "kill and destroy everything") to encounters that turned genuinely scary, Holly reveals what it's really like to hold up a mirror to male behavior in public spaces.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow Holly Solem:https://www.instagram.com/manthropologytvhttps://www.instagram.com/hollymsolemFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Jun 2, 2025

56 min

Regan and Chesko dive into the world of "golf widows" after discussing a viral TikTok where a husband turned his text exchange with his struggling wife into an AI song. They explore how normalizing this behavior hurts marriages, the difference between actual comedy and cruelty disguised as jokes, and why some men get defensive when called out for treating their wives poorly. Plus: tangents on pickleball, competitive dads at birthday parties, and why "cancel culture" isn't actually canceling anyone.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterResponse clip being discussed from:https://www.instagram.com/zachmentalloadcoachMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

May 26, 2025

1hr 20 min

The episode touches on everything from 90s boy bands (with some nostalgic NSYNC vs Backstreet Boys debate) to the importance of taking criticism gracefully when doing social justice work. They also dive into Kid Rock's recent inflammatory comments about declining birth rates in the US, where he blamed "ugly" and "deranged" liberal women before unpacking the deeper issues behind such statements, exploring how they reflect broader problems with toxic masculinity, emotional regulation, and the refusal to examine systemic causes for societal changes.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterClip being discussed from:https://www.instagram.com/manthropologytv/Merch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

May 19, 2025

55 min

In this episode, Reagan and Chesko dive into the absurd world of "Timmy Bounce Back" and his viral rant about why men are "awesome" and women are supposedly "destroyers." Between fits of laughter, they unpack the toxic mindset behind these kinds of statements, examining the fragility that leads to such ridiculous claims. They explore how patriarchal systems actually harm everyone, the importance of intersectional feminism, and why some men would rather maintain a broken system than work toward equality. And, as always, there's an extra full episode waiting for Patreon supporters who want to get to know our hosts even better!Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterClip being discussed from:https://www.instagram.com/manthropologytv/Merch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

May 13, 2025

56 min

In this episode of 'Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Show,' Regan and Chesko dive into double standards, bodily autonomy, and the right to exist comfortably in shared spaces as We discuss the viral gym clothing debate currently raging on social media before moving on to discuss broader patterns of misogyny, false accusations, and the weaponization of exceptions to enforce control over women's bodies.Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

May 6, 2025

59 min

Chesko and Regan weigh in on the viral question sweeping the internet this week regarding 100 men vs. a silverback gorilla and of course connect it to some deeper conversations about red flags and toxic masculinity. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyYouTube: Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Apr 28, 2025

1hr 8 min

In this episode, Chesko and Regan analyze viral videos from the man suggesting funeral crashing as a dating strategy to debates about 'dad bods' and why some men refuse to listen to women's actual preferences. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.comTikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Apr 21, 2025

1hr 30 min

Chesko and Regan totally go off the rails talking about their love of Netflix's "Love on the Spectrum" while constantly interrupting each other with tangents (as usual). The hosts get deep about why they're obsessed with the show—relating hard to the awkward silences, info-dumping, and that whole desperate need to fill conversational space. Between Chesko's beard-pulling stems and Regan's shaky-cam rants, they dish on their fave couples while calling out the show's infantilizing music choices. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterMerch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow Us on Social Media:https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhaterhttps://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhaterFollow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProfTheme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

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